Friday, August 10, 2007

unfair world

mommy also wanna have some me time with fren, go window shopping, eating, yakking, spa, skinceuticals, massage, pedicure and hair make-over. the pathetic part is mommy gotta take leave in order to do this! On the other hand, daddy can just take off whenever he wants to play golf, meet his fren, play games, go holiday…no questions asked. so even when mommy takes leave to do the "me time", i still get the feeling that i am perceive as selfish. (eh! but do i really care?)



see la, so unfair this world, if all the mommies do all the things daddies do, sure will have negative label such as sell-fish, bad-mom, (you get the idea)…but is all ok for a dad to do it. why ah? the world is not round leh.

i got off the point, actually i wanted to say i took leave to do things, did adult stuff like went to get $$ from epf, then go erika chinese school to see if she gotta place or not…yahoo celebration…she will be going to class 1C (i was in class 1C too ~ long long long time ago). erika was happy to know that fact, but not too happy on the prospect of going to school.

after all that, only went to do me stuff with this fren…not to worry still have 27 days of annual leave left to use, so anyone wanna have a spa-ring day, call me! i will be happy to spa horizontally with you.

11 comments:

Grace said...

eh..sometimes I also feel like tat wor, I think women more 'sai sum' gua.

*envy* 27 days AL?? wah u seldom take off ke?

Health Freak Mommy said...

Talking about fairness. When my hubby is sick, he complains when I asked him to help out wif the gals but when i m sick (most times i fall sick together wif d gals) i hv no leave, no rest, no sleep, no whatsoever! I can only chi kei ku chi kei.

NomadicMom said...

I must be the terrrrriiiiibbbble one lah... Always dump kids with my mum and go on holiday...kekekek

jazzmint said...

life is never fair eh within father and mother..well at least u have 27 days left!!

Mummy to QiQi said...

u deserve them, supermom....eh, if u feel bad, i feel lagi bad ler...

girlie said...

go ahead and have your "me" time, never mind the people who say you're selfish because you know you're not!

i always make it a point to have my me time ^_^

Lovely Mummy said...

sometimes we mummies need some ME time one....do not feel guilty, do what you want, though we are not always go for this activities mah...we also take care our family too...

Blur Mommy said...

My me time also used to run errands...*sigh* Sometimes, I wish I can have some real me time!!

Annie Q said...

muahahaha..very agree with ur statement!
Can i copy and paste ur 1st and 2nd paragraph on my blog and for "him" to read ar..hahahahahaha.
Eh..next time we go spa together ya? *wink wink*

Big Pumpkin said...

*hands up*

IMMomsDaughter said...

I Hearrrrrr you, I feel the same. It's always "Take Leave" else no other time to do my ME things. I can't even go for hair cut on Sundays. *sob sob* Thanks for letting me rant here. Lol.